Is Instagram Safe for Kids? What Parents Need to Know

by Jul 13, 2017Social Media

Instagram users are growing exponentially, but there’s a dark side–which is why it’s often called Instaporn! The question parents are asking is a good one: Is Instagram safe for kids?

is instagram safe for kids

Instagram has become “the most popular social media platform with tweens (ages 8-12) and teens (ages 13-18), with no signs of a slow-down.”

Instagram currently has 700 million monthly users and 300 million weekly users. (Just for some perspective, the entire population of the United States is 322 million!) And it’s growing fast!

According to this chart in the Motley Fool, it’s number 7 out of 10 of the world’s biggest social networks.

 World’s biggest social networks

  1. Facebook (1.9 billion users)
  2. WhatsApp (1.2 billion users as of February 2017)
  3. Messenger (1.2 billion users as of April 2017)
  4. YouTube (1 billion users)
  5. WeChat/Weixin (889 million users)
  6. QQ (869 million users)
  7. Instagram (700 million users)
  8. Qzone (638 million users)
  9. Twitter (328 million users)
  10. Weibo (313 million users)

Kids love it and so do adults. And Facebook loves it because it owns Instagram and makes a lot of money from selling ads.

But is Instagram safe for kids?

Recently we received this question from a mom named Catherine:

How about how to use Instagram without getting all the bad videos?… My cute 12 year old daughter loves Instagram with her friends. She just doesn’t tap on the videos. But someday she might. How to avoid that???

And here’s our answer:

At this point, there’s no blocking porn on Instagram. The best we can hope for is a better filter that recognizes pornographic images and blocks them. Covenant Eyes (affiliate link) is working on that feature (listen to president Ron DeHaas describe it here) but it’s not available yet. (Sign up with Covenant Eyes and be the first to have access.)

Our friend, Chris McKenna at, explains Instagram this way:

Instagram = 3 Page Print Magazine

When I describe Instagram to people now, I tell them to imagine a 3-page print magazine.

  • On page 1 are pictures of kids from your school. These are friends you see almost daily and would say that “you know.”
  • On page 2 are a pictures of strangers who have sent pictures of their life to be shared in the magazine. These pictures would be of any moment from their life – they’ve just decided to share it.
  • On page 3 is pornography. Full angle sex pictures of every position imaginable.

Now, ask yourself, is this a magazine you would ever hand over to your child? This is Instagram. And, there’s nothing that can be done to stop children from seeing pages 2 and 3 as I described above.

Is Instagram safe for kids?

And just in case you’re not convinced, there are other dangers with Instagram. Read Instagram and Your Kids: 5 Hidden Dangers

5 Instagram Tips for Parents

  • I would not advise allowing a young child (under 13) on Instagram. I probably wouldn’t allow my child to have a smartphone with an internet connection at that age either. There are no iron gates on the internet and kids that age do not have as much self-control as you might think. (See our FREE guide below to help determine if your child is ready.)
  • Before they get onto Instagram, I would make sure they have been taught about the dangers of viewing porn and they understand what the plan is for rejecting it when they see it. Read Good Pictures Bad Pictures with them. Educate yourself on the research on how porn harms kids. Learn more here. Help your kids to understand how porn can hurt them.
  • Have lots of talks with your kids about the pitfalls of social media apps as well as the benefits. To that end, I highly recommend reading the New York Times best seller American Girls: Social Media and the Secret Lives of Teens . It’s extremely eye-opening and I learned a lot about American boys as well.
  • Be aware that kids often create a Finsta (or a Fake Instagram) account for posting to a select group of friends and to hide what they’re posting from their parents. Here’s how to find out if your child has one.
  • I would get a signed social media contract before I allowed them on Instagram. Here’s one I like from Scary Mommy because it actually makes the child agree NOT to look at pornography. (So many of these contracts don’t mention porn at all!)

So, I would have to say NO to the question: Is Instagram safe for kids? It’s not. And in my opinion, most kids are not going to have the judgement and self-discipline to use it without getting hurt by it.

Is My Child Ready for a Smartphone?

It’s a BIG decision to allow your child full-time internet access. ASK these 10 questions to help you determine when your child is ready for a smartphone. Get your FREE guide by clicking on the image below.

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Kristen Jenson
Kristen A. Jenson is the founder of Protect Young Minds and author of Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today's Young Kids. Kristen enjoys speaking, writing and anything else that will help empower kids to reject pornography. Kristen earned a bachelor’s degree in English Literature, and a master’s degree in Organizational Communication. Kristen currently lives with her husband in Washington State, where she enjoys growing a vegetable garden, watching Masterpiece Theater, and taking long walks with friends who tolerate her incessant talking about you know what. Above all else, her husband and three children are her greatest treasures.

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