Is Anime Safe for Kids? Top Tips to Find Age-Appropriate Shows

by Mar 16, 2021Screen Time

Anime–the Japanese adaptation of the word animation–conjures up cartoon series like Digimon, Pokemon, Yu-Gi-Oh and others that have been loved by kids for decades. But just because it’s animated or in cartoon form doesn’t mean it’s appropriate for kids. Many parents have asked us, “Is anime safe for kids?” With the help of Protect Young Minds readers Chris and Charmaine Wagner*, we’ve pulled together a primer on anime–the good, the bad and the questionable. 

In this article you’ll find:

  • Key facts and tips for parents about anime as an art form
  • Our recommendations for anime that is safe for kids–and ways you can find more
  • Terms denoting the various anime types–and ones you’ll want your kids to avoid

Answering the question: Is anime safe for kids?

Not all anime is sexualized. Anime is simply an art form. However, parents should know that there are many genres within anime that are sexualized and even pornographic. That’s why it’s so important to research each anime show your child wants to watch

First, let’s have a word about nudity. Nudity in a non-sexual situation is not considered objectionable in Japan. Public baths are sex-segregated and normally attended naked. Any anime that has not been censored for the U.S. market could have moments of nudity. They are usually bath scenes, embarrassing moments, or superhero transformations. 

We at Protect Young Minds never encourage shame about any part of the human body. But it’s a good idea to know what your child may be exposed to. 

Related: Art vs Porn: How to Explain the Difference to a Child 

Here’s what you can do:

  • Take an interest in some of the anime your child likes and become knowledgeable (like you’re doing right now!). This positions you as a credible and sympathetic source of media information in your child’s mind. When you do need to say no, at least your child knows you’ve got good reasons and can explain them.
  • Don’t allow your child to shop for or watch anime online alone. Setting up parental controls on streaming services is smart, but don’t let your guard down! One idea you might consider is to download only the shows you allow your child to watch. 
  • Watch the first two episodes of any anime shows your child is interested in (we recommend doing this without your child). Make sure they line up with your family’s media standards.  
  • Thumbnail pro tip: If you look at the thumbnail for a show and you don’t see cleavage or exposed behinds, that’s a good sign that it may qualify as appropriate. But if you see cleavage and/or panties, that’s obvioiusly a red flag for sexualized content. 
  • An MA Rating is never appropriate for children and will almost always include sexual content. 
  • Educate yourself on the vocabulary used for various genres of anime, including ones that involve sexual content (see our list below). 

Choosing anime that is safe for kids

Here are some resources that will help parents choose safe anime for kids. We’ve also included a list of totally appropriate anime based on children’s books. 

Resources for parents

How to Choose Anime for Children: This article on Wikihow is a very helpful introduction to anime, with great advice for parents. 

Common Sense Media’s list of Best Anime Movies for kids. Includes sublists for:

  • Little kids (5-7)
  • Big kids (8-9)
  • Tweens (10-12)–review for violent content

25 Best Kids Animethis list is a bit dated (latest is 2015), but still helpful for parents. 

Anime based on books that are totally appropriate for kids

NOTE: Many of these are on YouTube. We highly recommend setting these playlists up on YouTube Kids rather than just starting it on your own YouTube account and walking away. You never know what the next suggested video might be.

Anne of Green Gables: Based on the novels, this anime is perfect for the whole family to enjoy together. Watch free on YouTube.

Kiki’s Delivery Service: A movie about a young girl that is a witch and uses her magic for good by starting her own delivery service. Get the Blu-Ray here, watch it on Amazon Prime Video or rent it on YouTube.

Little Women: Based on the novel by Louisa May Alcott. Watch for free on YouTube.

Sherlock Hound: A smart adaptation of the famous detective novels Sherlock Holmes, in which all of the characters are different types of animals. Watch for free on YouTube.

Deltora Quest: This anime is based on the fantasy book series by Emily Rodda. Watch for free on YouTube

Monkey Magic: An adaptation of the ancient Chinese folktale. Available on DVD here.

Moomin: Based on the kids books, this is a story about cute creatures called Moomins and the fantastic adventures they get into. Watch for free on YouTube.

Folktales from Japan: Traditional Japanese stories. Watch for free on YouTube.

Mottainai Grandma: A short educational multilingual (similar to “Dora the Explorer” but with Japanese & English). This is about a boy that learns virtues from his grandmother. Respect for elders and themes of teamwork and respect are prevalent in this anime. Watch for free on YouTube.

Anime terms and vocabulary 

If your child is interested in anime and you’re not, we recommend you review and understand these terms. They are not listed in alphabetical order, but in an order that makes sense to introduce this topic.

Manga /mahn gah/ Japanese cartoon, comic strip or graphic novel.

Hentai /hen tie/ Japanese word meaning perversion, perverted or pervert. Includes anything we would consider pornography. As a genre, it refers to any explicit sexual conduct, but not mere nudity. Hentai can be animation, drawings, or games. 

H-game A hentai game.

Ecchi /etch ee/ Literally “H-like”. This word comes from Japanese pronouncing the letter “H” as “etch” in reference to the first letter of hentai. Ecchi is a very broad genre that covers any sexual innuendo, sexual comedy, lewd behavior, or erotic themes. It can range from innocuous moments like walking in on someone in the bathroom to cleavage to panty shots to seduction to nudity. It’s possible that any anime show in any genre might have ecchi moments. 

Eroge /aero gay/ Erotic game or other erotic content. 

Yaoi /yao ee/ Male homosexual hentai. Primarily popular with girls.

Yuri /yer ee/ Female homosexual hentai. Primarily popular with adult men. 

Shonen ai /show nen I/ Literally “boy love.” A genre focusing on romantic relationships between boys that portrays emotional and relational drama. It is not considered yaoi because the sexual behavior is usually suggested instead of being graphically depicted. (Alternate spelling “Shounen ai”). Here’s an example:

Shoujo ai /show joe I/ Literally “girl love”. A genre focused on romantic relationships between girls. Again, this genre focuses on lesbian realtionships that depict more emotional drama than the graphic sexual behavior depicted in yuri. (Alternate spelling “Shojo ai”). Here’s an example:

Lolicon /lolly con/ A genre where sexually immature girls are placed in erotic situations. The objectifier (or sexual aggressor) may be male characters in the content or the audience. It comes from the term “Lolita complex”. It refers specifically to someone with an obsession for girls that have not completed adolescence and can range from mild erotic situations to child sexual abuse material (CSAM) or formerly known as child pornography. A “loli” /low lee/ is the girl who is objectified in lolicon. 

Shotacon /show ta con/ The male equivalent of lolicon. A “shota” is a boy who is sexually objectified in this genre of anime.

Waifu /why foo/ A female character that the viewer is romantically attracted to and would have a relationship with if she were real. Sometimes used as a joke, but for some it becomes a strong obsession. For example, a “waifu pillow” is a body pillow case with a print of the character on it–the images are almost always seductive or pornographic. They are produced, often without copyright permission, of even the most innocent characters. The word is a fanciful Japanese pronunciation of “wife.”

Husbando /huz bon doh/ The male equivalent of a waifu. 

2D Love A preference for forming relationships with two dimensional anime or manga characters. Sometimes the viewer or fan will even forswear 3D love with real people as a result of social anxiety, dysfunction or a devastating rejection by a 3D love interest. 

Shipping Derived from the word “relationship”, shipping is done by fans who match up anime characters in a fantasy relationship, not always but often sexual. These “ships” can involve same sex (“slash” or “fem-slash”) polyamory, interspecies, wide age differences and more. 

Harem A sub-genre of romantic comedy where one boy is pursued by many girls. Also, a collective term for all of a fan’s waifus.

Fan service Usually indicates sexual content created to please fans. For example, Funimation has a page of “Fan Service” anime which includes the series “Yamada’s First Time” about a high school girl who is obsessed with her goal to have sex with 100 guys during high school. Watch out for anything labeled “Fan Service”!

Ahegao clothing Mostly banned at anime conventions, this clothing features women’s faces experiencing orgasm. 

Rule 34 of the Internet “If it exists, it’s been used in porn. No exceptions.” That often involves cartoons of any conceivable non-erotic character depicted engaging in sexual behavior. (Yes, that means porn made of even the most innocent Disney characters.) 

Anime convention. A convention of anime fans where they meet friends, socialize and hold panel discussions on their favorite shows and characters. Parents who want to bring children to these events must be on guard for sexual content, especially in the merchandise or exhibition hall without making sure there are no vendors who are selling sexual material or hentai. We recommend that kids be chaperoned at these events. 

Cosplay /coz play/ Costume play or dressing up as a character, usually at an anime convention or other anime event.

Cautions for parents

Because most anime is produced in Japan, which is culturally different from North America, you can expect that kids will be exposed to potentially different value systems. In fact, child pornography (CSAM) was finally banned in Japan in 2014, so it has a long history of acceptance there. That is unfortunately reflected in many genres of anime. 

Anime is an extremely vibrant and creative medium that explores topics which would be difficult to explore in live action. My adult daughter has favorite anime shows that explore a variety of fun ideas and social issues. But she reports that it’s hard to find “appropriate” shows. Besides sexual content, many shows are excessively gory, violent and dark–some even showing children being murdered. Her opinion is that she finds more appropriate selections on crunchyroll.com than on Netflix. (Again, don’t allow kids to search for shows on their own.) 

Further, let’s not underestimate the addictive power of cartoon porn or hentai. Because anime consists of drawn figures with less visual information than live actors, it may be even easier for the viewer to overlay their own fantasies onto these characters. In fact, there’s a growing awareness of how 2D anime characters are actually replacing 3D relationships for some young adults. (Watch this 10 minute mini-documentary about a young man who retreated into a 2D fantasy relationship with an anime character.) 

Anime and manga can be great fun! And they can provide lots of opportunities to discuss family media standards. The point is to help kids develop an internal filter. Kids can learn to choose the good and reject the bad in the digital content they consume. 

*Chris and Charmaine Wagner first met at an anime convention in 2009 and were married in 2012. They are life-long anime fans and have both studied Japanese.

Kristen A. Jenson, MA
Kristen A. Jenson is the founder of Protect Young Minds and author of Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn-Proofing Today's Young Kids. Kristen enjoys speaking, writing and anything else that will help empower kids to reject pornography. Kristen earned a bachelor’s degree in English Literature, and a master’s degree in Organizational Communication. Kristen currently lives with her husband in Washington State, where she enjoys growing a vegetable garden, watching Masterpiece Theater, and taking long walks with friends who tolerate her incessant talking about you know what. Above all else, her husband and three children are her greatest treasures.

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